True love is being able to discuss your dirtiest, most indulgent fantasies together in a supportive, non-judgmental way. -Wayne Elise

Slowing down the time

When we are in a hurry our mind speed up. That’s when we felt time is moving so fast. The idea is not actually slowing the universal time, but we speed up so that the world slowing down. This “hurry” creates anxiety, anxiety makes time goes faster. And not only that, anxiety can create chaos. Everything you do might go wrong.

Have you ever be in a hurry when you want to go to work or school? That’s the time I think you almost forget anything but driving in such hurry. That’s also the time when you usually get stuck in traffic, get lost in the way, having an accident.

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Travel excitement

I was just getting off of an airplane, ready to take my luggage. I am so exciting the moment my foot touch the ground. It’s my first visit to Europe and I’m planning to stay for two weeks, so I thought “it’s going to be an awesome vacation!” The air I breathe felt so good. You know, the feeling of being in the place you never been for the whole life. The hype is still there and I am an ignorant person especially when my emotion takes over my head.

That moment I receive a phone call from one of my neighbors. Instead of asking about how I am doing they called to say that my home has been robbed. As I’m waiting in pain for my luggage on the baggage claim area, I didn’t see it until the last person waiting has gotten his bag. I keep thinking positive; it’s a good thing that I still keep my passport, at least. Then I go to ATM machine to get some money. There I find out my balance has been zeroed. Why on earth such bad luck happens to me? Maybe the next worst thing going to happen to me is a person that would shot me once I step out from the airport gate.

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Old man

This is a reminder for everyone who’s been working hard to live, including my self.

First I was dying to finish high school and start college.

And then I was dying to finish college and start working.

And then I was dying to marry and have children.

And then I was dying for my children to grow old enough for school so i could return to work.

And then I was dying to retire.

And now, I am dying…

and suddenly I realize I forgot to live.

Please don’t let this happen to you. Appreciate your current situation and enjoy each day… old friend.

To make money we lose our health,
and then to restore our health we lose our money…
We live as if we’re going to die,
and we die as if we never lived.

New year clock

It’s still 2009 here on this hot weathered city.

What am I waiting for in 2010? And what are you waiting for?

Is there something special on 2010 besides your new year resolution? I’ve made my thought on new year resolution. And I’m still keep it secret until I’m able to reassure my self that I could achieve it. It’s simple, but I think it is the root of my overall life problem. And I suggest you do the same, don’t make new year resolution only based on what you wanting to have next. Money can be gained anytime, so does happiness. But how do you achieve it if you don’t fix the root cause of the problem to grab that achievement.

I prefer to make a new year resolution based on my current situation. How do I see my life, zoom in detailed and zoom out overall view. And there the problem lies, is this life bored, dry? But if I felt happy and fulfilled already, then new year resolution isn’t necessary unless you would want to keep that happiness and fulfilled life to grow.

Enough talking. My time in 2009 is almost up, so does you.
When you read this, it’s probably 2010 already. So cheer’s, happy new year 2010 for you my beloved readers.

I thought sleeping and hypnosis are the same. In fact, trance is more like awakened state than normal sleep. Could a sleeping person accept a suggestion? That’s why I’d like to unfold my knowledge about this.

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When a supervisor come to me and says, “Josua, great job!” I felt like my body flow that relaxing fluid acid.

A compliment is really important for self-esteem. People doesn’t like compliment, they need it. They want to know if what they’ve done is right. When you give a compliment, you identify that person with your compliment and those compliments will feedback to your relationship with that person.

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A poet can made hundreds of poetry; an artist can made hundreds of artworks; musician can made hundreds songs. What makes them able to do such things? What a remarkable skill they have.

No, not really. The poetry may not sound that great. The artwork may not seem that beautiful. And only some of the songs sound melodically awesome. But, they do create that hundreds of works.

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Positive!

Many people would say “just think positive dude!” And they themselves seems don’t understand the process behind that positive thinking. Is it true positive thinking really works?

Before we got there, what’s really a positive thinking? Positive thinking is not just reversing the negative thoughts or the opposite of negative thinking.

Should we be in a state of happy, cheerful, good mood every day in order to think positively? No, we don’t have to.

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Have you ever talked to someone about a topic that you feel normal, but for him it is strange? For example when you talk about fried scorpions which are a very popular Japanese food, he suddenly feels disgust, fear, and have an urge to quickly change the subject. When invited to talk about death metal you are directly linked with the devil!

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