One day I want to prove is it true what we think could be a reality. It is one simple thing that could change my perception about a PROCESS.

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It’s been a year (I may say) I don’t write a single bit in my so called “another side of me”. Actually I have all the idea I need to write. Just don’t have the intention to actually write! Sounds familiar? Yes, it’s the biggest challenge for everyone: really hard to start.

Now that’s being said, let’s move on to the point. I better called it word of the day.

Noun: consternation `kón-stur’ney-shun

1. Fear resulting from the awareness of danger
   - alarm, dismay

Derived forms: consternations

See also: alarming, unalarming

Type of: fear, fearfulness, fright

Today I’ve been living with this word. There’s no particular reason why I chose the word. Found it on gmail webclip and I just feel we are all have this consternation moment. For me as a parkour practitioner, this kind of situation happen more often than a person who live in comfort situation. On real life everyday situation let’s say when I want to do something out of my comfort zone, I may feel confident but on the other side I also worried about the consequences of this action. Suddenly I felt the worry, that’s what we called consternation my friend.

So when you’re in worry, remember this word and learn the situation that this only a form of fear of what happen next. Cause the biggest fear is fear of fear itself!

Ciao!

Josua “Grenseal”

Love yourself

In many silly self-help books, I see this “love yourself” thing. No, I am not against this. I just oppose the way some books emphasize self-love and then impose things that would lead to self-hate.

Recently, I discovered how self-hate is hidden or how it finds itself ways to get hide under covers of self-help, self-healing, self-love, etc.

The main idea, what I believe to be true is this: whenever a person “forces” himself to do something and sets himself an objective, then life gets poorer just because there is an objective. That is to say whenever there is an objective in mind, be it losing weight, learning a new language, earning more money, doing more exercise, etc., we tend to forget the very moment that we are in and start to dream about our objective.

This is usually why objectives do not get accomplished. Aims, objectives need processes. There have to be a process that leads you to this objective. If you deny the process and just concentrate on what you want to happen, anxiety rushes and then there is no time left to work on it to be able to make it happen.

By self-love, we mean that you have to accept and love yourself as you are. Only then you will be able to understand that there is a present time where you are accepted by yourself completely as you are, and now you have this time, not to dream about the future but to work on the process towards your objective.

Hard to tell though.

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http://psycho-blog.hayatkisa.com/what-does-loving-yourself-mean.html

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Lost everything

It’s when I’m lost everything that I’m free to do anything. That’s right. See, when you loose everything you have you can freely do anything you want. But don’t loose everything you have… yet. Enjoy while it lasts. What we have is not permanent, we can loose some, but we’ll gain some more.

I know that I’m not that special snowflake. I’m just ordinary lazy suburban average guy (that’s what everybody says who they are). But I know I’m unique and so does you. I know what makes us unique, it’s not our appearance cause appearance is temporary. When you change your display image you’re then you’re not so special anymore.

There’s one huge thing that makes our self unique, that separate us from another average person, the one thing that gives us status, one thing that gives us power to be unique. (more…)

I'm in debt!

A business executive was deep in debt and could see no way out.

Creditors were closing in on him. Suppliers were demanding payment. He sat on the park bench, head in hands, wondering if anything could save his company from bankruptcy.

Suddenly an old man appeared before him. “I can see that something is troubling you,” he said. After listening to the executive’s woes, the old man said, “I believe I can help you.”

He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying, “Take this money. Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time.”

Then he turned and disappeared as quickly as he had come.

The business executive saw in his hand a check for $500,000, signed by John D. Rockefeller, then one of the richest men in the world!

“I can erase my money worries in an instant!” he realized. But instead, the executive decided to put the uncashed check in his safe. Just knowing it was there might give him the strength to work out a way to save his business, he thought.

With renewed optimism, he negotiated better deals and extended terms of payment. He closed several big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and making money once again.

Exactly one year later, he returned to the park with the uncashed check. At the agreed-upon time, the old man appeared. But just as the executive was about to hand back the check and share his success story, a nurse came running up and grabbed the old man.

“I’m so glad I caught him!” she cried. “I hope he hasn’t been bothering you. He’s always escaping from the rest home and telling people he’s John D. Rockefeller.”

And she led the old man away by the arm.

The astonished executive just stood there, stunned.
All year long he’d been wheeling and dealing, buying and selling, convinced he had half a million dollars behind him. Suddenly, he realized that it wasn’t the money, real or imagined, that had turned his life around.
It was just his newfound self-confidence that gave him the security and power to achieve anything he went after.

Or was it the security in his mind that gave him the confidence.

Its all in the mind…

Be aware

Do you aware of your life? Are you walk through this life unconscious? Look at yourself! what have you achieved until now? Have you ever feel grateful for it? Now if I asked you mention five think in your life that you grateful for, can you mention it in a short time?
Let’s prove it. I’ll give you 10 seconds to think about it starting from… NOW!

See!! You need more than 10 seconds! Most people in the world walk through life in a walking daze. Don’t know what they want, are in life – and they are being tinkered by people that do know. Now wake up from your endless loop of everyday activity, start finding new things, start a revolution in your life. Get outside of your comfort zone. Pick a fight, shake your life. You never know what is out there until you get there and really experience it.

But one think to be remembered, don’t expect you’ll always gonna get good things. Instead, expect anything, accept everything and get the true meaning from every experience. You may find it really hurtful, you also may find it really fun. Whatever you got you must appreciate it. Learn from your experience. That’s what makes your character thick.

Lots of Appreciate..

There are so many test in your life, you have to get used of it. You can’t stop it coming your way. All you can do is get through it. If you sick of it, then you’ll gonna get even sicker and sicker until it reach the level which we called depression. You’ll not gonna like to know what you’ll do next if you reach this level of human state. Have a relaxed mind. Think life as a game that can be played just once and one chance only. If you dead in the game, then you have to throw the video game machine away. Think of life as a one time disposal camera with only one film that you have to take one picture only until you throw the camera away. The goal isn’t to get the best picture, don’t have to get the highest score and listed in a hall of fame.

The goal is to get the perfect moment to get a happiness, play the game for fun. Do everything for fun, if your work never give you happiness, then why work? If your work is boring, you can try to do fun thing with it or find another fun job. You said “but I need this job, I can’t eat without money!“, true, but you eat food not money, you also live from your emotional state “happiness“. By thinking of what you’ve achieved and you grateful for, you already reach 80% of happiness, the other 20% is when you have your next goal and reach it. Strange huh? Why people can’t get their true happiness from what the will have. This is the paradox. That’s why obsession is a killer.

Who’s the most important person in your life this moment? I say this moment, I mean that first person that comes to your mind when I asked the question. What you’ve been grateful for about this person? Even you have bad memories about this person you still have bigger good memories about him or her, do you?

Grateful

See life is all about appreciation. There’s so much positive things inside every negative things. We focus too much to the negative side of a thing or person because we controlled by our emotion. This emotion is pulling your string, you act like a pupet! But don’t fight it, channel it. For example, anger: anger is negative but there’s a huge energy in it. People can swim across the sea because of anger, they can also kill themselves. Then why not using it to break a record for swimming accross the sea? Why not be a hunter and kill animal and sell them? That’s just a small example, I know you’re a smart person and you can think what’s best for you.

I appreciate..

Last words, feel grateful, say thanks, find positive side in everything you see, and smile..NOW!

Josua “Grenseal” Leonard

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