This is a story for someone who’s pessimistic. Once upon a time there are two persons, they worked in the same building but different level. Let’s call the first person John and the second is Doe. John and Doe has been friend for a long time. John work in the 3rd floor, while Doe is on the 30th floor. They work daily from 9 to 5.

When the working time has finished. John saw from inside his office to the street in front of his office and told Doe about this: “Hey bro, it’s traffic jam from up here! Let’s just wait one hour then we can go home smoothly!”

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A long-standing client once asked if I was happy. “Yes” I replied “100 percent happy!” Her reaction? “Oh, that’s very sad!” But, happiness is to be found within (where else would you expect to find it?) and just because I’m happy doesn’t mean that I don’t want to achieve more, that I don’t want more out of life. I said “want” but, actually, what I mean is “prefer”.

You see, generally speaking, we haven’t got a clue as to what we really want. And although a self-styled personal development “guru” recently told me that that is why most people are unhappy, how could the normal mind know what their heart really desires, when all the other normal people around them are judging their happiness in terms of how they compare to all the other normal people?

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Many people would say “just think positive dude!” And they themselves seems don’t understand the process behind that positive thinking. Is it true positive thinking really works?

Before we got there, what’s really a positive thinking? Positive thinking is not just reversing the negative thoughts or the opposite of negative thinking.

Should we be in a state of happy, cheerful, good mood every day in order to think positively? No, we don’t have to.

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